ughhh i struggle so much to this day with the idea of being misunderstood or even not being liked. i was very used to contorting and distorting myself to fit into what other people wanted or expected out of me, people pleasing, and at some point i got tired of pretending. but still, the narratives of safety and abandonment dictate how i show myself externally, and your article helps me remind myself that it’s okay. it’s okay for me to say things people don’t understand, to be confusing to others, to even piss people off sometimes when i tell my truth. very empowering ❤️
People always misunderstand what I like to read. I say romance and fantasy and they think smut. Interestingly after reading your article, one of the things I realised I like most about fantasy book is how the main heroine is usually extremely misunderstood and judged, and she gets an opportunity to show people who she really is
ughhh i struggle so much to this day with the idea of being misunderstood or even not being liked. i was very used to contorting and distorting myself to fit into what other people wanted or expected out of me, people pleasing, and at some point i got tired of pretending. but still, the narratives of safety and abandonment dictate how i show myself externally, and your article helps me remind myself that it’s okay. it’s okay for me to say things people don’t understand, to be confusing to others, to even piss people off sometimes when i tell my truth. very empowering ❤️
I feel everything you write sooo deeply! I think I’m currently living through everything you’ve healed from. Keep writing. Keep inspiring! 🥹
Thank you Good story for me
People always misunderstand what I like to read. I say romance and fantasy and they think smut. Interestingly after reading your article, one of the things I realised I like most about fantasy book is how the main heroine is usually extremely misunderstood and judged, and she gets an opportunity to show people who she really is
MY FAVOURITE MORTICIA QUOTE!!!!